See Through Sexy Lingerie Can Ramp Up Your Fantasy Play

Lingerie comes in many forms. One of the most fun is see through sexy lingerie. From crotchless panties to role-play costumes to just about anything made of leather, items like see through sexy lingerie can bring a new dimension to the joys of sexual play.

Everyone has sexual fantasies. If someone tells you they don’t, they’re fibbing! Sometimes, you enjoy your fantasies only in your own brain and when you’re masturbating. But if you like inviting your partner to join in, you’re not alone.

Researcher Harold Leitenberg found that during intercourse, about 85% of men and women have sexual fantasies at least some of the time, and 21% have them frequently. Leitenberg’s study also found that, “ . . . people who fantasize during sex felt a greater level of sexual satisfaction and have fewer sexual problems in their relationships.” [Men’s Health ].

But before you even get to physical acts of intimacy, acting out your fantasies can be a component of foreplay that heightens arousal and unleashes the brain’s storehouse of erotic imagery. It can lead you down new, sensual roads in your quest for better sex–and can also encourage new levels of emotional and psychological freedom that enhance the trust and lust you feel for each other.

See through sexy lingerie easily fits into that process. Many couples’ fantasies revolve around role play–like the French maid, the nurse, the schoolgirl–you’ve heard them all, and probably thought about them, too. Other types of costumes focus on touch and texture, like PVC and latex. Fantasies can be further broadened by when and where you act them out, and other toys you use as part of your game.

“The more open-minded you are about sex play, the broader your range of pleasure and enjoyment will be,” notes Dr. Carol Cassell, a US sex therapist from New Mexico [quote from Sex Secrets].

So how do you set up for successful sex games and wear your see through sexy lingerie? It’s vital to talk beforehand to ensure your partner is into doing what you want to do. Nothing spoils the mood faster than springing a surprise on a lover who needs some time to warm up to the idea.

Some experts advise starting slowly by verbally exchanging some of your fantasies with your partner, and finding out about theirs. This is a good way to discover each other’s level of comfort in terms of where you can go.

And there’s a bonus to discussing your ideas in advance . . . language is a potent erotic tool. You might turn each other on just by describing what you’d like to do to each other! Even if you try out a fantasy and it doesn’t work, remember that many experiments fail and that’s okay. By testing the waters and working together, you’ll learn how to set workable rules for your own erotic games.

Respect, understanding, communication, adventure and fun…these are the ingredients that can help make see through sexy lingerie and fantasy play a healthy, interactive part of your relationship.

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